Life Partner

No one can live alone without family, friends, and a life partner. When you loose the caring of others, you loose the taste for life. Even if you have many friends and a strong relationship with your family, you still looking for your soul mate and life partner.

It’s hard to that special person you are looking for, but it is even harder to loose him. We always seek or look for someone that we can share the rest of our life with. Many times we think that we have finally found what are we looking for, but suddenly we find ourselves alone.

There are many ways to help you find your life partner including the traditional ways from the past, or from our parent’s generation. In my country, Saudi Arabia, the traditional way of getting marriage or seeking for our life partner is based on family relationships and parents. When the man wants to get married, he usually asks his mother to look for a girl with a specific character. After that, the mother starts looking for this girl in each ceremony or invitation .Then if she finds the lucky girl she asks her for her mother number. Next, she calls the girl’s mother and tells her about the desire that her son want to get married to her daughter .Finally, the mother of the girl ask her to come with her son, so the girl can get to know him and she can know more about the family .If they feel comfortable they comfortable with each other, they get engaged.

Nowadays, many girls and boys refuse to get married by that way, or look for other modern ways to fall in love and then get married after a few month or many years.

The communication and technology of our century helps people search for there life partner .For example, there are many websites for marriage where you can enter all the requirements that you are looking for in your partner starting from his eye color ,tall, and the shape of body to his education ,religion, and nationality. Amazing hah!!
The first time I used such a website, I found many men who had the characteristics that I was looking for in just one click, and in less than one second I got a list of them.Maybe it looks so easy you think that you won’t have any problem feel lonely with such a service, but on the other hand you should keep in mind when using marriage website that most of the people that register on are looking for friendship, and playing relationship and aren’t interesting in getting married.

Is looking for a life partner a desire or need? For me it’s both, and whatever the answer is we can’t live alone without a special person who, understands, supports, and loves. Without this person who deserve you and you can continue with him the rest of your life. Maybe it will be hard to find him, but always keep this unspoken feeling and hope that you will find him one day by the traditional or modern way.